For the first time in a decade, the teen pregnancy numbers are going up, instead of going down like they have been. As an advocate for choice, and an even bigger advocate for education on preventing pregnancy, this is pretty alarming.
But not surprising considering most of these teens were the victim of the abstinence only education programs whose funding was greatly increased under the Bush Administration. Even though these programs have been proven to fail, increase teen pregnancy rates, and STD rates in the groups of teens who did not choose to abstain. It is not rocket science. If teens are not taught HOW to protect themselves through contraception, condoms, and other forms of pregnancy prevention, they will not know.
Sadly today, we cannot depend on parents to teach this. Many believe it is the school’s jobs, and some parents who think it is realistic for all teens to choose abstinence do not teach their children any other options other than, simply don’t do it.
But unfortunately for the teens today, most are not educated on parenting, pregnancy, teen parenting, and really what it takes to be a parent, and support a child. A recent study that I read published through a CNN article showed the serious lack of education teens have regarding sex. Some of the alarming numbers from this survey :
These are all alarming numbers, especially the amount of teens that THINK birth control will lead to some sort of health problem such as cancer. Yup, birth control now causes cancer, or at least that is the newest rumor on the streets. Even better rumor is that having sex while standing up will not get the girl pregnant.
Who comes up with this stuff?
But some of the reasons we really need to step back and teach our children how to prevent unplanned pregnancies is the statistics regarding teen parents, and teen pregnancy. Some of the more alarming numbers and facts are :
While being a teen parent is not a sentence of DOOM for the teen, or their child, in many cases like those above, it is. There are success stories, as there are in many cases for many things. But they are not the majority sadly.
I just hope parents actually look at these numbers, and statistics and think twice about talking to their children about really preventing pregnancy until they are older.
Well, actually, birth control pills increase the risk of some kinds of cancer, while decreasing the risk of other kinds.
.-= Kathy´s last blog ..Vita Mutari =-.
Having programs on MTV like “16 and Pregnant” and “Teen Mom” are not likely to improve the situation. I was discussing these shows with my girls and they think that it shows how difficult it can be. They also admit that they get involved in the soap opera-like action. I have asked them not to watch it anymore. In my gut, though, I am certain that there are some girls out there thinking, “Wow! I could get on MTV.” or “The girls on MTV can make it work.”
If teens are thinking that those poor girls are “making it work” they have a horribly sad perspective of reality.
But you are right, they will think they can get on TV, and get some kind of perk from it. It is a horrible situation all around!
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