My first day in New York City for BlogHer is over. I am settling down into my room with Marie, and Debbie and eating a store bought salad because we couldn’t find anything decent to eat. So where do I start?
Ahh, I will start on the train with my Dad… He took the train ride with me, helped me check my bags, and then we were tourists for the day. We headed all over New York City checking out some of the tourist type stuff, different places, St. Patrick’s Cathedral, The M&M store, all that fun stuff…
Checking out NBC, all that fun kind of stuff… Then I was able to check into the hotel, get dressed and really head on out for the different parties that I was invited to… After getting dressed, I got in line for a cab at my hotel, and headed to the Martha Stewart Blogger party… I got awesome swag bags, the only disappointment to me was not spotting Martha there after they said she was going to be attending (briefly) or maybe I just missed her.
Oh, and speaking of celebrity sightings… I saw Jeff Gordon today, ya know the Nascar driver that is probably as tall as I am. He walked out of the Time building as I was passing by and I totally stalked him for a while. LOL
Unfortunately I only got a picture of the back of his head…
Yup had to snap a picture of it… I wish I could have just run ahead of him and pulled a paparazzi kind of maneuver to snap a shot. Thinking about it now, I should have just called JEFF and told him his daughter is adorable and asked for a picture together. Shoulda Coulda Woulda… Right?
So I headed to the Martha Blogger Party… great food, and a TON of alcohol! I limited myself to one glass of champagne. It was nice, and I met a couple of really cool women who I was able to share cabs with to and from. I look forward to meeting more great bloggers!
I headed over to The People’s Party, went back to my room, and then The Feminist Breeder, and Baby Rabies tweeted wondering where I was… I got dressed again and headed back downstairs. LOL! I met Gina and I am SUPER beyond excited. Thought I was super fan before? I feel like she is someone I have known for ages!
All in all… it was a great night and I can’t wait for tomorrow!
We got our cloth diapers! After US customs decided to hang on to them for an extended period of time because the concept of a diaper, that is cloth is pretty confusing and dangerous… I thought they would never come after hanging out in the states for a good 10 business days before I begged my husband to go pick them up from our post office while I was in my Passion for Birth workshop.
Of course, during all the waiting, they tried to deliver them on the first day I was away for the whole day. My luck right? Haha!
So lets add something new to do over the next 3 days before I leave for BlogHer. Pre washing all my diaper inserts, and getting them all ready to start our cloth diapering journey!
Aren’t they so adorable?? I think my favorite color we got is the Olive Greenish color, and the Mrs. Robinson which is a dark blue. I will also be checking out their cloth swimmy diapers which is something we need this time of year! I really can’t express how excited I am to get started!
On that note, I am off to fire up my washing machine and pre-wash all of my inserts!
I also plan on using their cloth wipes we got and taking some time to complete The Feminist Breeder’s Cloth Wipe Tutorial.
I cannot believe what I signed back onto the internet to see tonight. After about 24+ hours of being offline after having my 4 wisdom teeth removed, and a painful and problematic tooth pulled, it seems like the blogging community of women I tend to read, well, used to read until all this bull shit has turned into the snarky mean girls from high school.
For a moment take a step back and LOOK at what rumors do, LOOK at what childish bullying on the internet causes, and go to sleep with a good conscious that what you are doing is right… because you will certainly lose sleep over it.
First Things First :

This is my face… I am swollen like crazy, on steroids, and can’t even take the pain medication I was given. So for me to look, and feel like this and come back to nonsense… didn’t make me much of a happy camper. I am going to be out of commission for at least another 2 days at the least. I am grateful to have one more day of my husband watching the kids, and Monday with my mother helping me all day. If not… someone might as well just shoot me.
So with that out of the way, you can certainly see how annoyed I may be at this point in time.
So, on to my opinion on the matter :
All in all? What do I have to say? Grow the fuck up!
I love Gina, and I see so much of myself in her and the things she has gone through, and the amazing horizons in her future. We have learned through some of the same mistakes, and that has made us clearly better people than some.
Do your think girl! You rock anything that comes your way, and don’t you ever let anyone else tell you differently!
Love,
Superfan LOL
Yesterday Babble featured the top 50 celebrity moms that are on twitter, and I had this genius revelation that I should make my own list of the top MOMS on twitter that I think SHOULD be celebrities!
Although coming up with 50 would have probably been impossible for me, coming up with 30 wasn’t too hard!
So, here are the top 30 Twitter Moms that I think should be Celebrities!
30) @MumtoEve – Bess as I know her is an awesome Mom. She recently just had a VBAC and is not tweeting as much as she was since giving birth, but still a great resource to twitter, and the childbirth community, especially being a VBAC mom herself!
29) @fyuree – Michael Robertson a friend of mine in real life who actually joined after I encouraged her to one night. The mother of 3, 2 born at home with a midwife, and one a natural hospital birth experience she is a great advocate! She authors her own blog called Is This Co-Parenting? As she is a Navy wife often faced with Deployment and late nights.
28) @ICANGrowPeople – Lori Says ” I started my blog I Can Grow People to keep my family informed about my pregnancy, but it has evolved into a place where I talk openly about my struggles and triumphs in parenthood–all while attempting to retain my sense of humor!” Check out her blog I Can Grow People.
27) @Crunchymummy - Jody is aStay at home mom of 1 and another on the way. Doing her best to eat, sleep, play, parent, and live more naturally. Particularly passionate about all things birth and baby related check out her website Natural Childbirth Stories.
26) @TheMommyologist – Mary is a witty blogger I stumbled upon on Twitter because we both found ourselves living in Connecticut. Her website The Mommyologist is cute beyond belief and witty to say the least! Check her out!
25) @Lynda – Lynda pretty simple to remember right? Unlike most of the bloggers and Mothers I have included before, she is not as much of a birth junkie as the rest. She is a great photographer, and overall a great person. Check out her blog The Daily Window.
24) @ToniRaquel – Toni is one of the first twitter moms I became friends with when first getting into the world of Twitter. She is a Polaroid loving, natural birth advocate, breastfeeding advocate, married mother to Lucy. We have been trying to convince her to start a blog! LOL
23) @Beniceprenatal – Cynthia Lin is part owner in Be Nice Prenatal vitamins, and a great and hysterical Mom on twitter! She has two children, ages 2 and 5 and a full time, corporate job. On the side, she says “I promote Be Nice prenatal vitamin drink mix and support all pregnant and breastfeeding mothers!” Check out Be Nice Prenatal Vitamins.
22) @GretaBlau – Greta is a local mother to me, I also met her on twitter through a great local midwife I know. Greta had a home birth with her son, and is a great resource to the childbirth community. I have been trying to encourage her to start her own blog, but in the mean time we can read what she has to say on BirthActivist.com.
21) @CTMayor – Tracy AKA The Mayor of Crazy Town is a hysterical Mom I met on twitter. She is a pistol, think twice before you say something to her, as she is good with one liners and comebacks! Check out her Website The Mayor of Crazy Town.
20) @AintYoMamasBlog – Aimee – I stumbled across this blog through the SITS girls, and couldn’t stop reading. While I don’t always agree with everything she has to say, I absolutely LOVE her blog! Check out Ain’t Yo Mama’s Blog! You won’t be sorry you did!
19) @RobinPregnancy – Robin Elise Weiss is not only a great mother on twitter, but she is a rock star in the birth community. Authoring nearly a dozen books, teaching Passion for Birth Workshops, being a mother, a guide on about.com for Pregnancy and Birth, she does it all! Check out some of her projects : Pregnancy.about.com and BirthActivist which she is the founder of!
18) @BabyDickey – Emily – I originally came across her on twitter in the tale end of her pregnancy which was full of pushed inductions and typical obstetric interventions. Through her Twitter Birth and an unnecessary induction and cesarean birth she became a great advocate, and ICAN chapter leader. Check out her Blog : Baby Dickey.
17) @Preparing4Birth – Desirre Andrews, childbirth educator, doula, and amazing educator. Mother of 4, two of which are VBA2C babies. She is the current President of ICAN and someone who is an awesome advocate and educator to follow! Check out her website Preparing for Birth & the ICAN site.
16) @FutureMama – Jen from the blog Baby Makin{g} Machine has become one of my favorite follows in her journey to parenthood. She has been not only fun to read, but a pleasure to help educate.
15) @TheSingleMama – Emily is a great mom and a single mother by choice to a beautiful little boy. She had an amazing birth experience we all watched on Twitter through a Twitter Birth also! Her website is The Single Mama.
14) @CrunchyVTMommy - Veronica I came across on twitter recently. She is a great twitter advocate, and has a lot of neat stuff to say. One of the things I love, she openly LOVES Wu-Tang Clan! LOL!
13) @HealthyJasmine – Jasmine is an awesome mom, and just had one hell of a VBAC attempt. She got me into writing for Examiner too! She has a lot of great articles on health and wellness. Check out the Chicago Family Health Examiner where she writes.
12) @RaisingBoyChick – Arwyn is an awesome woman to follow on twitter. She always has something to say that will really make you think, or laugh. She writes an even awesomer blog called Raising My Boychick, check it out!
11) @soozenw – Susan is amazing. She told an awesome tale of plans for a UBAC after she couldn’t legally find any midwives in her area to take on a VBAC at home. Although she had a 2nd cesarean section, she made a lasting impact on myself, and most of the childbirth community on twitter with her journey.
10) @MidwifeAmy – Amy Romano from Science & Sensibility, although I know her on more of a one-on-one level as she is local to me. Play dates, working on special projects or just having a glass of wine. She seriously rocks!
9) @LittleBGCG - A new mother of baby Mason, I love watching her tweets and reading her blog because it reminds me of the first months after I had my oldest Camden. Check out Little BGCG’s blog!
@Feministbirther – Janet is an awesome Feminist, and birth rights advocate from the other side of the world! I love her tweets and thoughts in general and her Blog is out of this world!
7) @KristineBrite – Kristine Brite is the mother of an adorable angel baby known to the world as Cora. She passed away from an undetected Congenital Heart Defect only a few days after she was born. Since the loss of Cora, Kristine has done amazing things to help spread the world on Congenital Heart Defects, has started a blog to heal, and help others, and started her own non-profit charity in Cora’s name. She is an amazing mother, and advocate!
6) @CrunchyGoddess – Amy Gates is an amazing mom blogger I met through twitter. Different from most typical Mom Bloggers Amy stands strong in her thoughts, ideas and beliefs and is an outstanding writer! I am always interested in seeing what is going to be the newest topic on her blog Crunchy Domestic Goddess.
5) @PhDinParenting – Annie is a great blogger who I have followed for quite some time, and I completely love the majority of her posts. While she may not be an actual PhD, she certainly should be! Her blog is thought provoking and constantly challenging my brain. Check out PhD in Parenting, you won’t be wasting your time!
4) @BabyRabies – Jill from Baby Rabies is probably one of my favorite preggo bloggers, and her tweets just crack me up. Reading a post of hers, or a tweet from her helps to get a smile on my face almost instantly!
3) @BirthingKristen – Kristen from Birthing Beautiful Ideas is an awesome chick! I had followed her, and her blog for quite a while, and then when preparing for the NIH VBAC conference in March, she was awesome enough to offer to share her room with me.Check out her blog, she has an amazing amount of great information on VBAC!
2) @FeministBreeder – Gina is probably the woman I want to be “when I grow up” and i say that with as much respect as possible. Gina is one of my idol bloggers, and one that I have the most in common with. I first found her VBAC story which made me not only cry, but enraged me to help make more change out there in the birth community. Her blog The Feminist Breeder is probably my favorite blog to read! I LOVE GINA! I cannot WAIT to meet her at BlogHer in August!
1) @StarryMom – Sarah rocks my socks off. She is my “web master” and has been an amazing help in turning my blogspot crap hole blog into not only a .com site, but an amazingly designed masterpiece! She is a great mentor when it comes to anything that has to do with technology, and she is an amazing photographer! Her website One Starry Night is just a masterpiece!
Now go check out all these women, follow them, tweet at them, and check out their blogs! You won’t be sorry!
Sure, there are some people who aren’t going to agree with me, or agree with what I have to say, but before I even get started, I am going to make it clear that harassing comments, or even rude or tasteless comments will end up where they belong… the trash. This is not a free for all over my opinion.
I had no idea there was this brewing revolution against the 2010 BlogHer conference until last night when I read “Nestle Doesn’t Care if you Back Out of BlogHer” by one of my fav’s Gina the Feminist Breeder. Then it hit me. This is probably the ONLY year I am going to be able to attend BlogHer anytime soon. With two little boys under 3, a budding career, and a million things going on in my own life, who knows when I will be able to go again. New York City is less than an hour for me on the train, it is cheap to commute for the conference, I will get to meet some of my favorite bloggers, and I have an AWESOME sponsor! Why would I back out now?
Well its no secret over the last 2 months I have been searching for a ticket like a nut because I wasn’t able to purchase one when they were sold out. Sponsor or not, no ticket means no conference.
Last night kind of burned my biscuits when people started discussing the fact that they are not going, nor passing their ticket along. Instead their ticket will be going in the garbage. While it is understandable because they have something that they believe in, it pissed me off because there are so many women out here sitting and waiting on the “waiting list” for BlogHer tickets, or would give anything for the opportunity to go, and the Nestle boycott doesn’t impact us.
It is no secret I haven’t been the biggest supporter of the Nestle boycott. I support what the boy cotter’s are doing, but unfortunately without Nestle, and their Good Start formula, my youngest child may not have been able to find any formula he could tolerate after he had issues with breast milk.
But now there are women from all kinds of causes who may not get the opportunity at all because more tickets are going in the trash even though people won’t be attending. Like I said before, on one side of the fence I see the issue, on the other side it looks selfish to all the women desperately wanting to go to the conference when these other bloggers are squandering their tickets.
My line in the sand?
I am standing with Gina, and I will still be going to BlogHer. and I will boycott Nestle openly while there, and I will be a radical.
But 20 people boycotting a conference isn’t going to stick it to one of the largest companies in the world, it is only going to stick it to 20 more women sitting on the waiting list who won’t get an opportunity to go to BlogHer, whether for their first time, or their fifth time.
There is a pretty good amount of stuff that took place from last Sunday till today, so I am going to try and wrap it up as easily and quickly as I can. Be sure to check out all the links, the stuff that went on this week is unbelievable in some cases!!!
Family : Not much, we had Easter dinner, Ben is getting another tooth, and some of our seeds we planted have sprouted.
Momotics :
Around the Web :
In the News :
Hope you enjoy!
Today in light of Easter, I am just throwing something simple together instead of my normal lengthy week ending posts.
In our house :
Around the blogs :
Be sure to tune in tonight to myself on The Feminist Breeder’s Radio show, a little late for us on the east coast as it is on at 11pm EST but it will be a lot of great information. I will be discussing the cesarean feelings survey that I have been actively working on with The Healthy Baby Network.
Also, be sure to tune in this coming Wednesday April 7th at 10pm EST for author Isa Hererra on my radio show. She recently published “Ending Female Pain” which is an amazingly informative book for women regarding female associated genital pain, sexual dysfunction, and helping to heal.
I have found that some of my readers really enjoy the weekly round up posts, so I am going to continue them as long as I have things to round up each week! Hahah!
This week there were quite a few things to highlight, but certainly not as much as there has been in the past.
I will start off with highlights from my house this week :
On the internet blog circle :
I hope you enjoy these highlights as much as I did this past week. If you have any highlights you would like to have included in my weekly round up posts, please e-mail them to me at Danielle.Elwood@gmail.com.
You can also leave a comment on the Momotics Facebook Fan Page or Tweet a suggestion at me on Twitter.
This is becoming a nice habit of mine, and I love taking the time to post my favorite blogs, news stories, and stuff going on in our own household for the week.
First I will start with our family this week.
Benjamin is getting another tooth, his top right one and it has made for a rough week on top of the house full of sniffles.
The boys & I hung out with Amy Romano this week and her little guy Dexter, it was a beautiful day, and I foresee some writing for Lamaze in my future.
Our wireless router finally showed up!
I got a new tattoo and made an appointment to get another fixed up and shaded!
Got picked up for another article in The Fairfield County Weekly.
My favorite blog posts from this past week :
In the news :
Still I have been doing this week that you should really check out if you missed it….
See ya next Sunday for a hopefully awesome wrap up of this coming week!
Since I have been a “member” of the feminism community, I have noticed a trend that is not seeming to change. The number of feminists that stop the fight for rights, and choice at abortion. Once a woman makes the decision to continue a pregnancy, they stop fighting for those rights. Now granted, not all feminists are like that. But this really has sparked thoughts in myself, as well as Gina, better known as The Feminist Breeder. Fitting blog title huh?
I found Gina through ICAN, but most people have stumbled upon her blog long before. But what drew me in the most was the amount of similar views that we shared. I was in instant … sistermance? Is that kind of compatible to bromance? You get the point…
Yesterday she wrote an amazingly awesome blog about exactly what we are going to talk about tomorrow night, I encourage everyone to go over to her blog and read : I’ve Been Annoyed with Feminist This Week . She in short articulates everything that I wanted to say. We have these giant woman’s rights organizations going to bat over the stupid 30 second Tim Tebow & Focus on the Family ad for the Super Bowl, but when it comes to an 11 minute segment on an elective cesarean section, or a 5 minute segment on water birth, both giving out horrid information to the mainstream public, screw that… it isn’t important enough.
I am so grateful for groups like The National Advocates for Pregnant Women who are truly working on this issue, and not just skimming over issues like this. We can hope that other big named groups such as NOW and NARAL will follow suit.
In light of this real issue, we decided to sit down and talk on the Momotics Radio show this Thursday Night at 10pm EST. If you don’t know, Gina also has a kick ass radio show herself called The Feminist Breeder and Friends. Tune in Every Sunday night at 10pm CST. I hope you tune in and join us this Thursday night.
This is not an issue that stops during pregnancy.
For some more cases on pregnant woman’s rights being violated, as well as birthing women, check out the links & video below :
NJ Case of VM
FL Case of Samantha Burton
It really all makes you think!